AFAM, the term used to describe those exotic creatures known as “foreigners,” or as we like to call them in the Philippines, “the elusive Westerner.” So, you’re an AFAM – an Alien Forced to Adapt to Manila… kidding. AFAM came from the acronym “A Foreigner Assigned (to) Manila”. Looks like some fancy-pants businessmen and bankers in Manila couldn’t resist hitting up the local watering holes after a long day of number-crunching. Can’t blame ’em, those tropical drinks are hard to resist!
Reasons Why Filipina Women Like to Date “AFAMs”
It is important to recognize that people’s preferences and motivations for dating foreigners can vary greatly, and it would be inaccurate to make sweeping generalizations about the preferences of Filipina women. But of course, why wouldn’t Pinays be open to dating foreigners? Maybe it’s because they’re tired of the local dating scene and want to spice things up with someone from a different country. Or maybe they just really love the accents. Here are some common reasons that may contribute to Filipina women being open to dating foreigners:
1. Cultural Exchange
Dating someone from a different culture can provide an opportunity for cultural exchange and learning. Filipina women may be attracted to the chance to experience new perspectives, traditions, and ways of life through a relationship with a foreign partner.
2. Financial Stability
Some Filipina women may perceive foreign partners as having greater financial stability compared to local suitors. This perception can be influenced by economic disparities between countries or personal experiences of financial struggles within the Philippines.
3. Exposure to Different Lifestyles
Dating a foreigner can offer the possibility of exploring a different lifestyle, whether it’s through travel opportunities, exposure to different languages, or exposure to diverse social and cultural environments.
4. Personal Preferences
Attraction and personal preferences play a significant role in dating choices. Some Filipina women may simply find themselves more compatible with individuals from other cultures or may be drawn to specific physical features, personalities, or characteristics commonly associated with foreigners.
5. Language and Communication
English is widely spoken in the Philippines, and many Filipina women are fluent in English. This linguistic compatibility with foreigners can facilitate communication and connection, making it easier to form relationships with individuals from different countries.
6. International Opportunities
Dating a foreigner can open up possibilities for international travel, relocation, or access to educational and employment opportunities abroad. This can be appealing to Filipina women seeking to broaden their horizons and explore new avenues in life.
7. Different Dating Dynamics
Cultural norms and expectations surrounding dating and relationships can vary across cultures. Some Filipina women may find that they connect better with foreigners due to shared values, different dating dynamics, or a perception of more egalitarian gender roles.
8. Personal Growth and Independence
Dating someone from a different culture can foster personal growth, independence, and self-discovery. It can challenge individuals to step outside their comfort zones, broaden their perspectives, and develop a greater sense of identity.
Just like how every snowflake is unique, every person’s reasons for doing things are also unique. When it comes to talking about dating preferences, tread lightly. Remember, everyone’s got their own baggage and quirks that shape their choices. So, don’t say “may kababayan na naman tayong nakaahon sa kahirapan” (We have a countryman who has come out of poverty again) because that’s not the case for everyone.
