How to Deal with Homesickness After Marriage

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How to Deal with Homesickness After Marriage

Introduction

Getting hitched to someone from another country is like ordering a mystery box – you never know what you’re gonna get! It’s an adventure that’ll change your life but be prepared for some unexpected plot twists. One of the biggest struggles people face in these situations is missing your mom’s cooking, saying goodbye to your cozy bed, fur babies, and favorite snacks— in short, HOMESICKNESS.

So, you’ve found yourself in a foreign land with your Afam and you’re feeling a bit homesick? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered with some practical tips and strategies to help you survive this crazy adventure!

1. Give your feelings a high-five and a pat on the back for being so darn valid.

When marrying someone from another country, it’s important to acknowledge and validate the feelings of homesickness that may arise. It’s totally understandable to feel like a fish out of water when you’re away from your family, friends, and all the cozy things you’re used to. Realizing that you miss your mom’s cooking and your dog’s cuddles is the first step in not crying yourself to sleep every night.

Understand that feeling homesick does not mean you are ungrateful for the new life you are embarking on with your partner and it doesn’t diminish your love for your partner or your commitment to your marriage. It’s like missing your favorite pair of sweatpants even though you just got a brand new outfit – they’re both great, but sometimes you just want the comfort of the old. It’s like missing your favorite pair of socks that have molded perfectly to your feet and keep them warm, except the socks are your hometown and the warmth is the feeling of belonging.

Go ahead and let those tears flow, ‘tets. Homesickness is like a bad haircut – it takes time to grow out.

It’s totally fine to have a good cry or a dramatic sigh while reminiscing about the good old days. Just make sure to do it in private or moderation so your partner won’t think you’re auditioning for a soap opera. By giving your feelings a high-five and a pat on the back, you can show them who’s boss and deal with them like a pro.

Remember, homesickness is not a reflection of your love for your partner or your commitment to the relationship. It is a separate emotion that many individuals experience when undergoing significant life changes, especially those involving a shift in a cultural and geographic context.

When you’re feeling homesick, don’t hesitate to turn to your partner for some love and comfort.

They may not be able to teleport you back home, but they can definitely give you a hug and remind you that you’re not alone in this big, scary world. Plus, they might even make you laugh with a silly joke or two (or at least try to) or a sexy night *wiggle eyebrows*. Don’t be a bottled-up soda, let your partner pop the cap and offer you some fizz and comfort. Spilling the tea about your emotional journey will make your bond stronger than superglue and help them understand you better than your therapist.

Moreover, bonding with people who have survived comparable situations can be worth its weight in gold. Don’t worry, you’re not the only one feeling homesick. Join a support group, online community, or forum and commiserate with others who are also feeling homesick. Plus, you might even pick up some tips on how to survive without your home comforts.

Just think of homesickness as a clingy ex that will eventually get the hint and move on. Focus on building new connections, exploring your new surroundings, and embracing the opportunities for personal growth and cultural exchange that come with marrying someone from another country.

2. Keep in touch with your loved ones (but don’t be too clingy!)

Keeping in touch with your loved ones from afar is like having a warm blanket of familiarity wrapped around you, except without the static cling. Make use of technology to bridge the distance through video calls, messaging apps, and social media platforms. Regular communication with loved ones can help alleviate feelings of isolation and homesickness.

When you marry someone from another country, staying connected with loved ones becomes even more important in order to combat feelings of homesickness. Here are some ways to stalk your loved ones from afar and make sure they never forget you exist:

a. Semi-Regular Communication (Occasional chit-chat: Because who has time for regular communication anyway?)

Make an effort to communicate with your loved ones on a regular basis…but not daily. Use all the technology you can get your hands on to connect with your long-distance pals. From video calls to phone calls, and emails to messaging apps, it’s time to put those thumbs to work! Make sure to schedule some quality gossip time to spill the tea and update each other on your latest shenanigans.

It’s important to communicate regularly BUT NOT TOO MUCH, because it could actually make you feel the distance more.

b. Virtual Gatherings

Organize virtual gatherings or family events through video conferencing platforms. Celebrate birthdays, holidays, or special occasions together, even if you can’t physically be there. No need to clean the house or put on pants! Just hop on a video call and pretend you’re all in the same room. Plus, you can mute that one family member who always talks too much or who comments on how fat have you become (yes it’s you, Tita!) Throw a virtual party and pretend you’re all in the same room! These virtual get-togethers can help create a sense of togetherness and make you feel connected despite the physical distance.

Let’s swap stories like we’re at a summer campfire but without the s’mores. Don’t let your loved ones feel left out of your life! Share all the juicy details of your adventures, mishaps, and daily shenanigans. They’ll appreciate feeling like they’re a part of the action, even if they’re just reading your texts from the comfort of their couch. Show us your best attempts at taking selfies with famous landmarks, videos of you attempting to speak the local language (and failing miserably), or written accounts of your epic travel fails. We want to see it all – the good, the bad, and the hilarious! This is like giving your friends and family a backstage pass to your life, except they don’t have to deal with the groupies or the paparazzi.

d. Plan Your Vacations

Don’t be a stranger! Plan some quality time with your loved ones, whether it’s a visit to your new digs or a trip back to your homeland. Just make sure to bring back some souvenirs! If you don’t plan visits, you’ll have nothing to look forward to except for your daily dose of disappointment. And your loved ones will start to wonder if you’re avoiding them like the plague. So, plan those vacations and look forward to it!

e. Embrace Technology

Get ready to enter the Matrix and discover all the digital gadgets and gizmos that will keep you plugged in and connected like a cyborg on steroids— I mean, explore different technological tools and apps that can help you stay connected in creative ways. You can now do everything with your friends online, from sharing digital photo albums to starting an online book club. You can even have a Netflix party or play games together! Embracing technology can make the distance feel less significant and help you maintain strong bonds with your loved ones.

f. Supportive Letters or Care Packages (Sending love in a box or a letter that says “I miss **you” and maybe some snacks)**

Surprise your loved ones with handwritten letters, postcards, or care packages that reflect your love and appreciation. These little love nuggets can make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, especially when you can’t hug it out in person.

Just like a plant needs water and sunlight, your relationships need attention and care. So, don’t be a lazy cactus, and put in the effort to keep those connections blooming! If you don’t tell your loved ones how much you miss them, they might start to think you’ve already forgotten about them. By staying connected, you can avoid feeling like a lonely potato and keep those precious relationships that anchor you to your home country.

3. Create a Home Away from Home

Make your new living space feel like home by adding a touch of your culture and traditions. After all, nothing says “welcome home” like a giant statue of your great-grandmother’s pet carabao. Make sure to fill your home with things that scream “I’m not from here!” like giant flags, life-size statues of your country’s leaders, and a constant soundtrack of your national anthem (no, please don’t.). Your neighbors will love it (or not)! If you want to feel at home, just sniff, listen, and munch on things that remind you of your childhood.

Building a replica of your home in your new place is the ultimate solution to homesickness. Just make sure to get a clone of your dog and favorite houseplant to complete the illusion. Here are some tips to help you turn your new place into a cozy and personal fortress of solitude:

a. Surround Yourself with Familiar Items

Bring meaningful items from your home country to decorate your living space. Display photographs, artwork, or sentimental objects that remind you of your loved ones and evoke fond memories. Incorporating these familiar elements can help create a sense of belonging and make your new environment feel more like home.

Bring all your precious belongings from your motherland to decorate your new abode (if you still have a baggage allowance, that is.). Show off some pictures, artwork, or knick-knacks that make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside because they remind you of the people you love. Bonus points if they make you tear up a little. If you want to avoid feeling like a lost puppy in your new environment, try incorporating some familiar elements. It’s like bringing your childhood blankie to college but for grown-ups.

However, if you don’t have enough baggage allowance to even bring the winter clothes you hoard before moving, do not fret! Check my Etsy store to get anything that will remind you of your home.

b. Spice things up with a pinch of cultural pizzazz!

Don’t be a cultural traitor! Bring a little bit of your home country into your living space. Who needs boring old decor when you can have a touch of exotic flair? Whether it’s a painting of your great-great-grandpa or an anting-anting that’s been passed down for generations, show off your roots with some cultural flair. And if all else fails, maybe you can try these shirts that shout that you are a Filipino everywhere you go. Get ready to party like it’s 1990 by cooking up some traditional grub, dancing like you’re on Fiestas, and practicing customs that make your heart sing.

c. Whip up some deliciously cozy meals that will make your taste buds give you a warm hug.

Food has a powerful way of connecting us to our roots and it’s always there to give us a warm hug (in our stomachs). Why not take your taste buds on a trip down memory lane and whip up some of your favorite dishes from back home? Your kitchen will feel like a one-way ticket to nostalgia town. Plus, you might just impress your friends with your culinary skills (or at least make them laugh at your attempts). When you take a whiff and a sip, it’s like a warm hug from your grandma – comforting and nostalgic.

d. Find Local Communities and Establish Connections

Go on a quest to find your people! Seek out the secret societies and underground organizations that honor your heritage. Or, you know, just look for some local cultural groups or organizations. Go find some fellow countrymen and bond over your shared love for weird food combinations and embarrassing national stereotypes. Don’t be a hermit crab in your new location! Join a club, attend cultural events, or just crash a party. Who knows, you might even make some new friends (or enemies, but hey, at least you’ll have a story to tell).

e. Explore Your New Surroundings (Time to put on your explorer hat and venture forth into the great unknown… or at least, your new surroundings. Let’s hope you don’t get lost and end up befriending a pack of wild squirrels.)

Go forth and conquer the uncharted territory that is your new surroundings! May you discover hidden treasures and secret passageways (or at least a decent coffee shop).

Don’t be a stranger to your new digs! Go out and explore your new stomping grounds like a curious cat. Who knows, you might even find a hidden gem or two (or three, or four…). Stroll around like a boss, find hidden gems, and become one with the locals. Discovering the best spots in town is like finding buried treasure – it’ll make you feel like a local legend in no time!

f. Establish Routines and Rituals (Embrace the monotony of life by creating daily rituals that make you feel like a cult leader.)

Creating a daily or weekly routine is like building a fort of stability in the chaotic world of adulthood. Don’t forget to schedule some “me time” for activities that make you happy, like reading, working out, or indulging in your favorite hobbies. Perform some quirky rituals that make you feel like a wizard, like chanting, dancing around in your underwear, or sipping your coffee while standing on one foot.

g. Connect with the Local Community (Mingle with the cool cats and groovy gals in your hood! It’s time to connect with the local community and see what kind of shenanigans they’re up to.)

Get out there and make some friends. Who knows, maybe your new neighbor makes the best brownies in town. Get out there and make some friends, or at least pretend to like people by joining a club or volunteering. Making friends in a new place is like planting seeds in a garden. You’ll need to water them with your time and attention, but soon enough you’ll have a beautiful network of support and a homegrown sense of belonging. Plus, you might even get some fresh veggies out of it.

Remember, creating a home away from home is a gradual process. Unless you have a magic wand, then by all means, go ahead and wave it! Don’t be afraid to mix things up like a cultural smoothie! Blend your roots with the flavors of your new home and create a deliciously unique identity. By adding your own flair to your living space and getting up close and personal with your surroundings, you can create a cozy and inviting atmosphere that kicks homesickness to the curb and makes you feel like you belong.

4. Seek Support Networks

Joining local communities or groups that share your cultural background can be beneficial.

When you’re feeling homesick in a foreign land, finding a support network is as important as finding a good pizza place. Here are some ways to find support networks in your new location:

a. Expatriate Communities

Go on a hunt for ex-pat communities in your locality. They’re like a secret society but with more accents and less secrecy. These communities are like a big, warm hug for ex-pats. They’ll organize events that’ll make you feel like you’re back home but with a fun twist. Plus, you’ll finally have someone to complain to about the weird food and confusing customs. Joining these groups is like finding your long-lost family, except they’re not related to you and you don’t have to share your inheritance with them.

Go on a wild goose chase through the vast expanse of the internet to find a community of fellow ex-pats from your homeland. It’s like a treasure hunt, but instead of gold, you’ll find people who understand your struggles of living in a foreign land. These online communities are like virtual group therapy sessions but without awkward silence and uncomfortable eye contact. Hanging out with these groups is like having a squad of superheroes who always have your back. Plus, you’ll get all the emotional support you need without having to bribe them with pizza. To unlock the secrets of the Filipino community in your area, perform a sacred ritual involving a virgin sacrifice Facebook search for “Filipino Community in *insert your location here*” and join the chosen groups. May the force be with you.

c. Local Meetup Groups

Why not use the power of the internet to find your tribe? Meetup platforms are like Tinder for friends but without the awkward first date. Swipe right on groups that share your interests and hobbies, and who knows, you might just find your soulmate (friend-wise, of course, because you’re already married, that’s why you’re in this foreign country in the first place!). Go out and mingle with people who share your interests! Who knows, you might even find your soulmate at a baking class or a photography workshop.

And if not, at least you’ll have some new friends to share your love of crime documentaries or arts with. Making friends who are into the same things as you is like building a human safety net in your new hood. Unless you want to end up in a real-life crime documentary, make sure to meet in a public place or bring your trusty sidekick with you. Batman and Robin, anyone?

d. Language Exchange Programs

Why not try talking to strangers in a foreign language? Or, if you’re feeling really adventurous, just start speaking gibberish and see if anyone understands you. But if you want to be a bit more practical, language exchange programs or classes might be a good idea too. These programs are like Tinder for language and cultural exchange enthusiasts. Swipe right on a local or ex-pat and start chatting! Talking to strangers in a foreign language can lead to lifelong pen pals and potential travel buddies. Who knows, you might even end up with a free couch to crash on in a far-off land.

e. The Secret Society of Business Wizards and Networking Ninjas

Sneak into the secret society of professionals in your field or industry. Go out and mingle with the cool kids in your industry! Join the professional party animals and make some new work BFFs. And don’t forget to connect with your new colleagues – they might just become your partners in crime (or at least in a cubicle). Making friends with professionals is like having a cheat code for your career. Not only will you have a bigger squad, but you’ll also have a bunch of wise sages to help you navigate the treacherous waters of the working world.

f. Join the dark side and become a volunteer for community organizations. We have cookies.

Don’t just sit on your couch all day, get out there and do some good! Join a volunteer group or community organization and make a difference. Plus, it’s a great excuse to wear a cool vest and carry a walkie-talkie. If you’re looking to make friends or pet some cutie furbabies, volunteering is the way to go. Plus, you get to feel good about yourself while doing it. Win-win! Volunteering is like a two-for-one deal: you get to feel good about yourself and you get to make the world a better place. It’s like winning the lottery, except instead of money, you get warm fuzzies.

g. Cultural Centers and Institutions (Where you can go to feel fancy and cultured, even if you have no idea what’s going on. Just nod and smile, and pretend you understand the art. It’s all about the experience, right?)

Go forth and expand your brain at places like fancy museums, snazzy libraries, or those places where you can learn stuff. You can totally immerse yourself in the local culture by attending workshops, classes, or cultural events. It’s like getting a crash course in being a local, minus the awkward language barrier and the weird stares. Plus, you get to meet people who are just as curious about cultural exchange as you are. It’s like finding your tribe but with more exotic food and less chanting.

Just like building a sandcastle, building support networks takes patience, determination, and a lot of sunscreens. Don’t be a couch potato and wait for friends to fall from the sky! Get out there and make some new buddies. Who knows, you might even have some wacky adventures along the way. Having a support network is like having a personal cheerleading squad, a group of advisors, and a family all rolled into one. They’ll make your transition to your new home feel like a victory lap!

5. Embrace the Local Culture

While it’s essential to maintain a connection with your home country, embracing the local culture is a wonderful way to immerse yourself in your new surroundings and create a sense of belonging. Learn about the customs, traditions, and language of your spouse’s country. Engage in local activities, explore the surroundings, and make an effort to connect with the local community.

Sure, keeping in touch with your roots is important, but let’s be real – if you’re not out there trying the local cuisine and dancing to the music, why are you even there, why not just kidnap your Afam to the Philippines? Get out there and embrace your new home, ‘tets! If you want to avoid accidentally insulting your partner’s family, it’s probably a good idea to brush up on the customs, traditions, and language of their country. Plus, you’ll finally be able to understand all those inside jokes they keep making with their relatives. Get out there and mingle with the locals! Join in on some wacky activities, explore the nooks and crannies of the area, and make some new friends. Who knows, you might even become the next town celebrity or not, because you’re too introverted for too much attention!

a. Learn the Language

Speaking a foreign language is like having a secret code to unlock the mysteries of culture. Plus, you can impress your friends with your fancy new vocabulary. Don’t be a language loser, put in the time and effort to speak like a local! If you want to learn a new language, you can either hire a polyglot parrot, chat with aliens or download a language-learning app and hope for the best. Your choice! Speaking the local language is like using a secret code to unlock the hearts of the locals. Plus, it shows that you’re not just a clueless tourist who’s lost in translation.

b. Explore Local Cuisine

Without food, culture would just be a bunch of hungry people staring at each other. Get ready to expand your waistline by indulging in the delicious local cuisine! Stuff your face with traditional dishes and hit up every food market and restaurant in town. Your taste buds will thank you, but your pants might not. Get ready to spice up your life by experimenting with local recipes at home! Attend cooking classes if you’re feeling extra saucy, or seek out food festivals and events to satisfy your cravings. Let’s taco ’bout how delicious this plan sounds! Stuffing your face with all the delicious food in your new place is a great way to gain some extra pounds and blend in with the locals.

c. Engage in Cultural Activities

Dive headfirst into all the funky festivities and shenanigans that highlight the unique customs, funky art, groovy tunes, fancy footwork, or dramatic performances of the area. Go out and pretend to be cultured by attending festivals, exhibitions, concerts, or performances. You might even learn something! Why not learn some old-school skills and impress your friends with your newfound talent? Take a class in basket weaving, square dancing, or kazoo playing. Who knows, you might even become the next big thing in the world of folk art! By participating in these shenanigans, you’ll not only become a cultural connoisseur but also have a chance to mingle with the locals who are just as obsessed with their traditions as you are.

d. Connect with Locals

Strike up conversations with locals, whether it’s your neighbors, colleagues, or people you meet at social events. Show genuine interest in their culture, traditions, and daily lives. Ask questions, listen attentively, and be open to learning from their experiences. Developing relationships with locals can provide valuable insights and enrich your understanding of the local culture.

Go ahead and chat up the locals, whether they’re your next-door weirdo, coworkers, or random folks you bump into at parties. Who knows, you might just make some new friends or enemies! Pretend to be a spy and gather intel on their culture, traditions, and daily lives. Shh, don’t blow your cover!

Step 1: Put on your best detective hat and start asking questions.
Step 2: Pretend like you’re a sponge and soak up all the juicy details they have to offer.
Step 3: Be open to the fact that you might actually learn something from them (shocking, I know).

Making friends with the locals is like adding extra seasoning to your cultural experience – it makes everything more flavorful and exciting!

e. Explore Historical and Cultural Sites

Your new city has more to offer than just Netflix and chill. Check out some historical landmarks, museums, art galleries, or cultural centers. Discover the juicy gossip, funky art, and wacky traditions of the area. Get ready to dive deep into the stories and hidden meanings behind these sites. They’re like a time machine that will transport you through the local culture’s wild evolution.

f. Adapt to Local Customs

Don’t be the weirdo who accidentally insults the locals by not knowing that it’s rude to say the “n” word or to wink at strangers on the street. Watch the natives in their natural habitat as they socialize, say hello, and behave in various situations. It’s like watching a nature documentary but with humans instead of animals. By adapting to local customs, you avoid accidentally offending the locals and prevent them from chasing you out of town with pitchforks and torches. Plus, you might even get invited to some cool parties.

g. Engage in Community Service

Get out there and make a difference in your community! Plus, it’s a great excuse to wear your favorite superhero costume. If you want to be the cool new kid in town, you gotta give back! Plus, you’ll get to see all the weird and wonderful things your new community has to offer and make friends with the do-gooders who are making it a better place.

To fully immerse yourself in the local culture, you gotta be ready to ditch your comfort zone, open your mind, and unleash your inner curious cat. Meow! If you want to avoid being the weird foreigner who accidentally insults everyone, it’s best to learn the local customs and traditions.

6. Establish a Routine

Creating a routine can provide a sense of stability and structure amidst the changes. Here are some tips for establishing a routine, because let’s face it, we all need a little structure in our lives.

a. Set Priorities (Decide which tasks are important enough to procrastinate on.)

Figure out what’s important to you and get your life together, or else it’ll be a hot mess. Trust me, I know from experience. You know, just a few things to keep me busy so I don’t end up talking to the cats all day. Knowing your priorities is like knowing which toppings to put on your pizza – it’s essential for creating a well-balanced and satisfying routine.

b. Define Your Ideal Day (the perfect day where everything goes your way and unicorns fly around you.)

Imagine a day when you can eat pizza for breakfast, nap for lunch, and binge-watch your favorite TV show for dinner. Now, allocate your time accordingly. Think about all the hours in a day that you’re not spending scrolling through social media or binge-watching Netflix. You know, the hours where you’re supposed to be a functioning adult. Yeah, those ones! Listen, I know it sounds crazy, but trust me on this one: creating a rough outline of your ideal day is like building a solid foundation for your routine. It’s like putting on your hard hat and getting to work on your own personal construction project. Let’s get building!

c. Designate Time Blocks

Pretend you’re a human-sized Tetris game and fit your activities into each block of time. Bonus points if you can rotate yourself to fit in even more fun stuff! Here’s a revolutionary idea: try designating mornings for actually waking up, afternoons for pretending to be productive, and evenings for binge-watching Netflix. Trust me, it’s a game-changer. Listen, I’m not saying you need to schedule every minute of your day like a robot, but having some structure will keep you from wandering around aimlessly like a lost puppy. Plus, you’ll have more time for important things like napping and snacking.

d. Maintain Consistency

If you want to be as predictable as a clock, make sure to stick to the same routine every single day. Who needs spontaneity anyway? Consistency is like a trusty sidekick that helps you form habits faster than a superhero can save the day. Try to wake up and go to bed at the same time every day, so your body doesn’t get confused and start thinking it’s a cat. Also, make sure to schedule your meals like a boss and set aside time for your favorite activities, like binge-watching Netflix or playing with your pet rock.

e. Prioritize Self-Care (Make sure to pamper yourself like a royal highness, because tet, deserve it!)

Don’t forget to schedule some “me time” in your daily routine, whether it’s hitting the gym, taking a bubble bath, or just staring at a wall and contemplating the meaning of life. Trust me, your sanity will thank you. If you don’t take care of yourself, you’ll end up looking and feeling like a wilted plant. So, water yourself (or get watered by your partner, if you know what I mean *winks*) with self-care and watch yourself bloom!

f. Be Flexible (as a yoga instructor)

Just like a yoga instructor’s body, our routines should be flexible and adaptable. Be ready to switch up your routine. Don’t be a rigid robot with your schedule. Leave some wiggle room for unexpected dance parties or impromptu naps. Just go with the flow, tet.

g. Monitor and Adjust

Keep an eye on your daily grind and give it a good old-fashioned critique. It’s like being a judge on a reality show, but instead of contestants, you’re judging your own habits. Don’t be a zombie! Keep an eye on your energy, productivity, and happiness levels. If certain activities or time blocks are as useless as a screen door on a submarine, consider rearranging or modifying them to better align with your needs and goals.

h. Seek Accountability

Tell your nosy neighbor (or maybe your trusted friends or family) about your routine so they can keep tabs on you and report back to the neighborhood watch. Let’s make a deal: I promise to share my goals and intentions with you, and you promise to support me in sticking to my routine. It’s like a buddy system but without matching bracelets. It’s like having a personal cheerleader without the pom-poms and short skirts. You can start by starting a forum here: https://afamchi.com/forum/

Just like finding the perfect pair of shoes, establishing a routine is a personal journey full of blisters and wrong turns. But don’t worry, you’ll eventually find the routine that fits you. Don’t worry if you feel like a fish out of water at first, just keep swimming and eventually, you’ll find your way to the coral reef, Nemo! A well-designed routine gives you stability, productivity, and overall well-being powers, making you thrive in your new setting like a boss.

7. Seek Professional Help, if Needed

If homesickness is kicking your butt and refuses to leave, it might be time to call in a professional. A therapist who’s been around the block can help you find your way and avoid any cultural faux pas. Think of them as your personal cultural GPS!

Here are some points to consider regarding professional assistance: because sometimes you just can’t do it alone, and that’s okay!

a. Recognize the Signs

If you find yourself talking to your houseplants more than your friends, it may be time to seek professional help. If you’re feeling like a sad potato, can’t sleep or eat, and have lost interest in everything except binge-watching Netflix, congratulations! You might be experiencing the classic symptoms of homesickness. If you’re feeling like a hot mess and can’t adult properly, it’s probably time to call in the professionals.

b. Therapeutic Support

Why not try talking to a wise old tree or a friendly neighborhood squirrel? Because they may not have a degree in counseling. Consider reaching out to a licensed therapist or counselor who specializes in areas such as adjustment difficulties, cultural adaptation, or homesickness.

These experts are like your personal emotional bouncers, providing a judgment-free zone for you to vent, gain clarity, and learn how to handle life’s curveballs like a boss. Going to therapy is like having a personal GPS for your brain. It helps you find your way through the twists and turns of adapting to a new environment, without getting lost along the way. Plus, you get to vent to someone who’s paid to listen to you complain!

c. Support Groups

If you’re feeling homesick or struggling to adjust to a new culture, don’t worry – you’re not alone! There are support groups and counseling services out there just for you. Think of it as a big group hug from people who understand what you’re going through. Join these groups and find solace in the fact that you’re not alone in your misery. Misery loves company, after all! Sharing your thoughts and feelings with others who can relate can be like finding a unicorn in a field of horses – rare and magical. It can help you feel less alone and more like a part of the herd.

d. Campus or Workplace Resources

If you’re a student, take advantage of all the free stuff you can get your hands on. And if you’re at work, don’t be afraid to raid the supply closet for some extra pens and sticky notes, kidding aside, what I meant was: explore the resources available to you.

If you’re feeling homesick or struggling to adjust to a new culture, don’t worry! There are plenty of places you can go for help. Don’t be shy, these resources won’t bite! They’re here to help you navigate life’s challenges with the finesse of a ninja and the wisdom of a sage.

e. Online Resources

If you’re feeling down, you can now get virtual therapy without leaving your couch. These are like a virtual hug when you’re stranded on a deserted island without any human contact. If you’re tired of talking to your houseplants and need some real human interaction, check out some online counseling services. They’re like therapy but without the awkward waiting room magazines. Research reputable online counseling services and consider exploring this option if it suits your needs.

Remember, seeking professional help is a personal decision, and there’s no shame in reaching out for support. Professional assistance can provide you with the tools and guidance to navigate the challenges of homesickness and cultural adjustment, helping you develop coping strategies and find greater emotional well-being in your new environment.

Just like how there’s no shame in asking for directions when you’re lost, there’s no shame in asking for help when you’re feeling stuck. Professional assistance can provide you with the tools and guidance to navigate the challenges of homesickness and cultural adjustment, helping you develop coping strategies and find greater emotional well-being in your new environment.

Conclusion

Feeling homesick after marrying someone from another country is like missing your ex while on a date with a supermodel. It’s normal, but don’t let it ruin the fun of building a life with your partner!

Trying to adapt to a new environment and battling homesickness can be as tough as trying to solve a Rubik’s cube blindfolded, but fear not! There are some tricks up your sleeve to help you get through it.

By acknowledging and validating your feelings (even if it means ugly crying in public), staying connected with loved ones (even if it means FaceTiming during awkward time zones), creating a home away from home (even if it means smuggling your favorite snacks in your suitcase), seeking support networks (even if it means befriending the local cat lady), embracing the local culture (even if it means trying the questionable street food), establishing a routine (even if it means waking up at 5 am to beat the crowds), and considering professional help when needed, you can better cope with homesickness and find a sense of belonging in your new surroundings (even if it means pretending to be a local and getting lost in translation).

Just like how every snowflake is unique, so is your journey. So, don’t be too hard on yourself, and remember to treat yourself like a snowflake – delicate and beautiful. Take it easy, ‘tet! Don’t be afraid to reach out for support if you need them. By using these tactics and fully embracing the quirks of your new surroundings, you can kick homesickness to the curb and fully enjoy the wild ride that is your intercultural marriage and new abode.