Communication in LDRs
If you’re in a long-distance relationship (LDR) and struggling to keep the spark alive, don’t worry – we’ve got your back. Maintaining a strong connection when you’re miles apart can be a real bitch, but with these kickass communication strategies, you’ll be able to keep the conversation flowing and your bond strong, no matter how far apart you are.
1. Use Every Damn Communication Tool Out There
Don’t just stick to texting like a boring old fart. Mix it up with video calls, voice messages, emails, and whatever else you can think of. Each one has its own perks – like how texting is quick and easy, but video calls let you see your partner’s beautiful face (and maybe a little more, if you’re feeling frisky *wiggle eyebrows*).
If you’re itching to find out which apps and gadgets can keep your Filipino flame burning bright across the miles, boy do I have a treat for you!
We’ve rounded up the crème de la crème of LDR tech in our latest article: “13 Best Platforms for Maintaining an LDR with Someone in the Philippines“. It’s like a buffet of digital love tools, minus the risk of food poisoning. From video chat veterans to apps that’ll make you blush, we’ve got it all.
So, why not take a gander? Your relationship (and your phone bill) might thank you later. And hey, if nothing else, you’ll have some great conversation starters for your next awkward family dinner. “So, Aunt Edna, have you heard about these new couple’s vibrating bracelets?” On second thought, maybe keep that one to yourself.
2. Make Time for Some Quality Convos
Look, we get it – life gets busy. But if you want your LDR to survive, you gotta make time for some real talk. Set aside some dedicated “us” time for meaningful conversations, and actually be present during them. None of that “uh-huh, yeah, sure, k k” bullshit while you’re scrolling through Instagram.
3. Trust Each Other (Or You’re Fucked)
Trust is like the glue that holds your relationship together, especially when you’re miles apart. Be honest with each other, even if it’s hard. Don’t keep secrets or play games – that shit will only bite you in the ass later. And for the love of god, don’t be that crazy jealous partner who’s always accusing their S.O. of cheating just because you dreamed of it.
4. Celebrate the Good Times (Come On!)
Just because you’re not together in person doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate the big moments. Make a big deal out of anniversaries, birthdays, and other special occasions. Watch the same movie or read the same book, so you have something to bond over. It’s the little things that count, y’know?
And hey, why not take it up a notch and cook something together over a video call? I know, I know, it sounds cheesy as hell, but hear me out. There’s nothing quite like bonding over food, even if you’re miles apart. Plus, it’s a great way to show off your culinary skills (or lack thereof, no judgment here).
Not sure what to cook? We’ve got you covered with our article “Easy Filipino Dishes to Cook Over a Video Call: Share a Meal Some Laughs!” Trust us, there’s nothing sexier than watching your partner attempt to flip those lumpia or mix up a batch of pancit. And if things go horribly wrong and you end up with a charred mess, well, that’s just more reason to laugh together.
So go ahead, give it a try. Worst case scenario, you’ll have a funny story to tell your friends. Best case scenario, you’ll have a delicious meal and some precious memories with your long-distance love. And who knows, maybe you’ll discover a hidden talent for cooking Filipino cuisine. Stranger things have happened, right?
5. Support Each Other’s Dreams (But Don’t Forget About Yourself)
You gotta have each other’s backs, even when you’re far apart. Support your partner’s goals and dreams, and cheer them on every step of the way. But don’t forget about yourself, either. Make sure you’re still pursuing your own passions and maintaining your independence. Clingy is never cute, unless he/she’s into that.
6. Plan Some Sexy Time (Wink Wink)
Let’s be real – the physical stuff is a big part of any relationship. So when you do get to see each other in person, make it count. Plan some special dates, and don’t be afraid to get a little naughty. And in between visits, well… there’s always sexting and phone sex. Just make sure you’re not accidentally sending that dick pic to your boss.
7. Actually Listen to Each Other (Novel Concept, Right?)
Communication is a two-way street, folks. Make sure you’re actually listening to your partner, not just waiting for your turn to talk. If something’s bothering you, speak up – but do it in a way that’s not accusatory or aggressive. And if your partner comes to you with a problem, don’t just brush it off or try to fix it right away. Sometimes they just need you to listen and be there for them.
8. Get Creative and Keep Things Fresh
Just because you’re miles apart doesn’t mean things have to get stale. Send each other little surprises, like a care package or a heartfelt letter. Plan a surprise virtual date night, complete with takeout and a movie. The more effort you put in, the more connected you’ll feel.
But let’s be real, sending gifts to the Philippines can be a real pain in the ass. You don’t want to spend hours googling “how to send a fucking teddy bear to Manila” or end up with a package that gets lost in the mail for months. That’s where our article comes in: “Top Gift Services in the Philippines: Nailing the Surprise Game!” We’ve done the hard work for you and found the best ways to send your love (and maybe a few snacks) across the ocean.
And if you’re struggling to come up with gift ideas, don’t worry – we’ve got your back there too. Check out our article “How to Absolutely Wow Your Pinay Girlfriend with Your Gift Without Trying Too Hard.” Trust us, you don’t need to spend a fortune or get all mushy-gushy to make her feel special. We’ve got tips and tricks for every budget and personality type.
Maybe you’ll send her a cute little trinket that reminds you of an inside joke, or a shirt with a funny saying that always makes her laugh. Or maybe you’ll go all out and plan a surprise virtual spa day, complete with face masks and fancy-ass candles. The possibilities are endless, my friend.
The point is, putting in that extra effort can make all the difference in keeping your relationship strong and sexy. And with our gift-giving guides, you’ll be able to do it without tearing your hair out or accidentally sending her a box of live scorpions (true story, don’t ask).
So go forth and get creative, you sly dog. Show your girl that even though you’re miles apart, she’s always on your mind. And if all else fails, just remember: when in doubt, send food. Trust us, it works every time.
9. Focus on the Positive and the Future
LDRs can be tough, but try not to dwell on the negative. Instead, focus on all the great things about your relationship, and all the exciting plans you have for the future. Talk about your dreams and goals, and how you can work towards them together. Having something to look forward to can make the distance feel a little less daunting.
10. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help
If you’re struggling, don’t be too proud to reach out for support. Talk to friends who have been in LDRs before, or look for online resources and communities. Sometimes just knowing you’re not alone can make all the difference.
And hey, if you’re feeling really lost or just need to vent, why not post something on our forum right here on the website? Trust me, there are plenty of people who have been in your shoes and are more than happy to lend an ear or offer some advice.
Maybe you’re dealing with a particularly nasty fight with your partner, or you’re just feeling lonely and need some words of encouragement. Whatever it is, let’s build a community that got your back.
And who knows, you might even make some new friends or afam along the way. Bonding over shared experiences (like the struggle of coordinating time zones for phone sex) can be a great way to connect with others and feel less alone.
Plus, let’s be real – sometimes you just need to bitch and moan to someone who gets it. And who better to understand the ups and downs of an LDR than a bunch of strangers on the internet who are going through the same thing?
So don’t be shy – hop on over to the forum and let it all out. We promise we won’t judge (unless you’re doing something really, really dumb, in which case we’ll definitely call you out on it, but in a loving way or mark it spam).
At the end of the day, remember that you’re not alone in this. There are plenty of people out there who are rooting for you and your relationship. And with a little help from your friends (both IRL and online), you’ll be able to navigate this crazy journey called love with a smile on your face and a spring in your step.
So there you have it, folks – the secret sauce to making your long-distance relationship thrive. It’s not always gonna be easy, but if you put in the work and communicate like a boss, you’ll come out stronger on the other side. Now go forth and conquer the distance, you badass lovebirds!
