Celebrating LDR Anniversaries
If you’re in a long-distance relationship (LDR), you know how much it sucks to be apart on your anniversary (or Valentine’s Day, or whatever important celebration that is). But just because you can’t be together in person doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate your love and commitment to each other. So, put down that pint of ice cream and get ready to take some notes, because we’ve got a guide to making your anniversary special, no matter how many miles are between you.
Understanding the Importance
First things first, let’s talk about why anniversaries are so damn important in an LDR. When you’re miles apart, it’s easy to feel disconnected from your partner. But celebrating your anniversary is a way to remind each other of the love and commitment you share. It’s a time to reflect on all the memories you’ve made together and to get all sappy and emotional about how far you’ve come.
Plus, let’s be real – creating new memories on your anniversary gives you something to look back on when the distance feels like it’s crushing your soul. It’s like a little glimmer of hope that one day, you’ll be together again and making even more memories.
Creative Ideas for Anniversary Celebrations
Okay, so now that we’ve established why anniversaries are so important, let’s talk about how to make them special. And no, sending a generic “Happy Anniversary” text doesn’t count. You’ve got to get creative, people!
1. Virtual Date Night
One idea is to have a virtual date night. Order the same type of food (or even from the same restaurant chain if you’re feeling fancy) and watch a movie together using one of those streaming services that let you watch together. It’s like Netflix and chill, but without the “chill” part. Or, if you’re feeling adventurous, take an online cooking class together and enjoy the meal you’ve prepared “together” over video chat.
If you need some ideas on what to cook, check out our article: Easy Filipino Dishes to Cook Over a Video Call: Share a Meal Some Laughs! Trust us, there’s nothing sexier than watching your partner struggle to pronounce “sinigang.”
2. Customized Gifts
Another idea is to send customized gifts. You could get a piece of jewelry with a significant date or coordinates engraved on it. Or, create a playlist of songs that are meaningful to your relationship and share it with your partner. It’s like a mix tape, but without the tape part.
If you need a delivery service that offers customized gifts, check out our article: Top Gift Services in the Philippines: Nailing the Surprise Game! And if you’re a Filipina wanting to send something to your bae abroad, shameless plug: check out my Etsy shop. You’re welcome.
3. Surprise Delivery
If you really want to sweep your partner off their feet, arrange for a surprise delivery. Send a bouquet of flowers or a gift basket filled with their favorite snacks and books. It’s like a care package, but with more love and less ramen noodles.
4. Shared Experiences
You can also celebrate your anniversary by sharing experiences together, even if you’re apart. Start a book club for two and discuss the book over the phone or video chat. Or, if you’re both into gaming, play an online game together on your special day. It’s like a date night, but with more button mashing.
5. Memory Lane
Take a trip down memory lane by creating a digital scrapbook of your favorite moments together. You can go through it together online and reminisce about all the times you’ve shared. Or, send a box filled with mementos from places you’ve visited together or events you’ve shared. It’s like a time capsule, but without the risk of burying it and forgetting where you put it.
6. Future Planning
If you’re feeling optimistic about the future (and who isn’t after a year of being stuck inside?), use your anniversary to plan for the future. Talk about destinations you’d like to visit together or create a bucket list of things you want to do once you’re reunited. It’s like a vision board, but with more inside jokes.
7. Artistic Expression
If you’re feeling creative, commission a piece of art that represents your relationship, like a painting of a place you both love. Or, write a heartfelt poem or letter and read it to your partner over a video call. It’s like a love letter, but with more awkward pauses and “can you hear me now?”
8. Learning Together
Learning something new together can be a great way to bond, even if you’re miles apart. Start learning a new language together (bonus points if it’s a language spoken in a place you want to visit together, or maybe Tagalog) or take an online course on a subject you’re both interested in. It’s like school, but without the pop quizzes and cafeteria food.
Unsure where to kick off your Tagalog journey? Check out some of our articles:
- Filipino Phrases You Need to Know Before Going to the Philippines
- Language Lessons: Basic Tagalog Phrases to Impress and Connect with Your Partner
9. Health and Wellness
If you’re both into health and wellness (or if you just want an excuse to wear yoga pants all day), do a virtual yoga or workout session together. Or, share a meditation session to connect on a deeper level, even from afar. It’s like couples therapy, but with more deep breathing and less “I statements.”
Or maybe listen to guided erotic meditation audios. What are those? Well, let’s just say it’s like a sexy version of those guided sleep meditations, but instead of drifting off to dreamland, you’re getting all hot and bothered. It’s a great way to spice things up and connect with your partner on a more intimate level, even if you’re miles apart.
Just imagine: you’re both lying in bed, headphones on, listening to a soothing voice guiding you through a sensual journey. As the narrator describes each tantalizing touch and sensation, you can’t help but let your mind (and hands) wander. Before you know it, you’re both breathing heavily and feeling more connected than ever before.
Of course, erotic meditation isn’t for everyone. And if you’re not comfortable with getting freaky over the phone, that’s totally okay. There are plenty of other ways to connect with your partner and celebrate your anniversary from afar.
But if you’re feeling adventurous and want to try something new, why not give it a shot? Just make sure you’ve got some privacy (and maybe a towel) before you dive in. And who knows – maybe erotic meditation will become your new anniversary tradition.
10. Subscription Services
Subscription services can be a great way to celebrate your anniversary from afar. Sign up for a book subscription service where you both receive the same book each month, or get a subscription to a streaming service and watch a new series together, starting on your anniversary. It’s like a gift that keeps on giving, but without the risk of getting socks.
11. Star Gazing
And finally, if you’re feeling extra romantic (and who isn’t on their anniversary?), name a star after your partner or your relationship. Spend the evening stargazing together, even if it’s over video chat. It’s like a scene from a Nicholas Sparks movie, but without the tragic ending.
Conclusion
So there you have it, folks – a guide to celebrating your anniversary in an LDR. It’s not easy being apart on such a special day, but with a little creativity and a lot of love, you can make it a day to remember. And if all else fails, just get really drunk and profess your love for each other over video chat. Hey, it worked for us.
Just remember, no matter how you choose to celebrate, the most important thing is to show your partner how much you love and appreciate them. So go forth and celebrate, you crazy lovebirds. And if you need more ideas, just check out our other articles here on Afamchi. We’ve got your back.
